Self-Image
I discovered that we all unconsciously have a self- image. If we
wish to reach our goals, but our self- image is not in alignment
with our success then we are likely to sabotage it.
If your image of yourself is that of an employee, you are not
likely to allow yourself to become a manager. It just does not fit
your self-image.
If you see yourself as unlovable, you will probably push away the
one who tells you, “You are lovable.” If you have an image of
yourself as being poor, you very well may sabotage your financial
success and any chance to move up in your career.
For example, I wanted to join an exclusive tennis club in
California and I heard myself sabotaging my enrollment by thinking
negative thoughts. I do not have enough money. I can not play tennis
well. I have no time. People will not want to play with me. Since
none of these statements were true, I recognized my fear of success.
Being a member of the exclusive tennis club did not fit my
self-image. I am a poor girl from Brooklyn, New York.
My unconscious fears could not accept a poor girl image in this
club with wealthy people. Once I realized the issue, I was able to
use my HART Therapy (Holistic and Rapid Tranafromation) process to
update my self-image. I did allow myself to join the tennis club and
I had a wonderful time. I broke through the fear that this
particular success did not fit my self-image.
How many clubs or organizations have you not joined, because it
did not fit your self-image?
This fear of success comes up very often in love relationships.
Susan, a twenty-six year old attractive blonde, was in tears as she
told me how much she wanted to be in a relationship. However, all
the men in her life kept leaving her.
In order for Susan to feel lovable, I guided her through a
process that helped her change her self- image. It was not long
before she began to attract more successful relationships.
Do you have a successful self-image? If not, it is time to
release the old image and replace it with one that is in alignment
with your goals.
Excerpts from the book, "ALL You Need Is HART!", Tape and CD MP3
audio, "Free to Fly--Dare to be a Success", and "Seven Major Keys to
Success" e-book
Helene Rothschild's new book is now available!
Self-Image